My mother always complained that I spent more time with Three headed dragons and Bloodthirsty vampires than her. “What do you get by killing all those poor beasts?”, she used to say. My father, on the other hand, worried about the strain I put on my eyes and moved his head from left to right in disagreement whenever I beheaded a rival.
Ever since the news of Grand Theft Auto IV hitting the 500 million dollars benchmark in a week hit the market, there has been a rise in concern on the effects of violent games on children. Although all the games
which come in the market have a rating given by the ESRB(Entertainment Software Rating board), its hard to interpret the effectiveness of it, when the games with an “M” or “A” rating are easily accessible to children. There have been numerous studies trying to relate Aggression and violence in the society to games but such studies have always been debatable either because of the techniques involved or the source of the funding. While the Educational and Entertainment games are not having a stigma attached to them, it is the Genre of Violent games which is facing the heat. All the studies relate violent games to declining academic performance, aggressive nature, antisocial behaviour, poor interpersonal skills, decreased social helping and desensitising of the brain(A process in which the response of the brain diminishes towards the scenes of actual violence because of the over exposure to violent games).
Throughout the history of the modern world, whenever a new media of entertainment is unleashed whether it may be Novels, television, theatre, cinema or gaming, the previous generation who was oblivious to such sources of entertainment, show their concerns and doubts. Movies still bear the burnt whenever something “Antisocial” happens although nobody cares about the fact that the accused might be mentally ill. Similarly there are many Publicised incidences where Violent games are blamed without a second thought.
Still, out of the top 10 video games of 2007, 6 were rated M(mature), so you can understand what the buzz is all about. You can check out the top 10 games of 2007 here.
From a gamer’s Perspective
After graduating from Pacman, Digger, Moon patrol and Bricks to Wolfenstein, Halo, Mortal Combat, Blood Omen, Call of Duty, Hidden and Dangerous, Tekken, Serious Sam, Heretic, Quake and Doom, to name a few,
I myself have been an avid Violent Games lover. That is why somehow the fuss is beyond my comprehension. Yes, I enjoyed my ability to blow an opponent to pieces by my blue laser gun, I enjoyed my ability to hit 10 people waiting for a bus with my truck, I enjoyed being a sniper and silently killing the enemies, but in the end I was very much aware that they are all fantasies. This was something NOT real and would never be repeated in reality. The moment my computer was switched off, the fantasy land was switched off too. And No, I was not aggressive or short tempered. On the flip side, yes, I was spending less time with my family.
The book Grand Theft Childhood by Dr. Lawrence Kutner and Cheryl K. Olson explore the truth about violent video games. According to them, Youth Violence and the popularity of Violent games are moving in opposite directions. As the sales of “Violent” games is peaking, the graph of Youth violence in United States is plummeting. The authors state that for many children and adolescents, playing video games is an intensely social activity, not an isolating one as gaming now a days involve multiperson play. Also gaming is a very popular topic for the young generation for discussion. For many people, violent gaming acts as an outlet for their pent up anger. Although the book does not openly support such games but it raises questions on the already established beliefs. You can read chapter 1 of the book here.
Parental Concerns
My parents were concerned by the amount of time I was spending on killing aliens and demons, which is very normal, but they never forced me to stop playing. Generally parents are not very much aware of the kind of games their children are playing on the consoles. Games with a “M” rating generally trigger off the alarm. Since they are the first generation of parents who are subjected to these kind of anomalies so their concern is genuine. The only way out is to be more involved with the children and to know the kind of
games they are playing. There are certain games which imbibe a highly destructive, sexist and racist game playing models and can be a source of problem and concern.
Finally
Being responsible and getting involved is a good option for the parents but at the same time they should keep in mind that violent games are not going to turn their child into a psychopath. It might be doing your child more good than harm, but its a little hard to digest. It might be something completely harmless and just a source of entertainment for the child, just like watching television is for the parents. This interpretation also differs from child to child and it would be a point to ponder for the parents before taking a final decision and keeping their children away from the “M” rated games( And the “A” rated ones without any doubt
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Are you sure that this is written by you
Its fully different from all of your previous posts man. The way of writing and everything is different. Still I am in doubt man
About games, I am a die hard fan of strategy games. But not like you I cant come out of the gaming mood once I switch off my computer. I will be thinking of strategies while I am in sleep also. My language will be mixed with many terms from that game till I complete that one
On parental concerns, I think they are more concerned about our studies and will be in an impression that we can perform better and wasting time in games and I can sure that no kid want to end up his game and study
i love games..though i dont like that much violence because those type of games are not supported in my stupid system..but yes i have played heritic , tekkan whoich have considerable amount of violence ..
and i dont beleive that playing games will make them psycopaths or som4thing like that/.
that depends on the childs mental health …
and apart from that violence is everywhere now …
isn’t it ???
You have cheosen a pretty dabatable topic here……..I strongly believe that violent games make children violent. All the concerns of insensitiveness are very rational and true!! I believe, to a level violence in games should be allowed, but after an extent they should not be there. Such games should be banned….
I believe you would not agree as you have played them all and are not violent…but how many sane people like you, have you seen around you?
Hey, gaming is fun……….
) it becomes very tough in veteran level, what is ur experience ??
looking forward to play GTA 4………
COD 4 is cool i managed to finish it in just 6 days (recruit level
I don’t think that playing violent games makes children aggressive and violent. I never played any violent games, the camera movements in them made me dizzy. Though, I watched my brother getting glued to the screen killing off people and making it to the next stage. I think most of the times, it’s about winning the game and overcoming the challenges. It’s also about wanting to know what the next stage and difficulty would be. It’s also about finishing the game successfully and telling your friends your score. It’s also about projecting yourself as the hero you can never be in real life. Its like a means to an end. And as you said once the computer is switched off, so is the fantasy was also switched off. Also, the playing games has its shelf life. After you have played the game for a certain period of time, you eventually get bored of it and dont feel like playing it. Being violent is in the mind. If you have that bent, then you would get violent, games or no games. I don’t believe that Hitler played all these games
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The amount of money this game has made so far is simply insane!
I just read this report that claimed that while the sale of violent video games has skyrocketed over the past decade, the reported cases of violent crime involving kids has actually decreased.
Could violent video games actually be making kids less violent? I’m not sure if I buy it, but it is an interesting debate.
@Vijaya Bharat : I think Strategy games have received a clean chit but its only the Mature games which are constantly under the scanner. And, ok, I’ll take your this-post-is-different thing as a compliment.
The game might fuel the violent tendencies in a child only when the child is already very violent but on the other hand it might make the child more normal because he/she now has an outlet to spit out all the violence in him/her. It might work both ways.
@Arvind : Exactly. How different is playing a Mature game from watching an action movie? If we can allow the latter then what difference does it make? And parents always know what kind of tendencies their children have, so they must act accordingly.
@Abha : I think all the people I know who play Mature games are very much sane.
@Sachin : I have played COD 2 but I don’t remember much of it. I was more of a Quake-Doom-Halo player.
@Maddie : Yes, very well put. Its more about “knowing” what is going to come next rather than who is going to get killed next. If the child already has violent tendencies then Mature games can work as a fuel as well as an antidote too.
@Shane Bertou : You bet!!! I have read about this report too. What goes in favor of the Mature games is that they provide an outlet for the pent up anger. But somehow I feel that television and movies can leave a much more powerful impact than any game.
After reading this one will think that I live on some other planet but the fact is that the only game in which I’ve won a few times in Solitaire and minesweeper. I’m just not good with those action games.
The theory that violent games act as an outlet for you angers seems to be a palatable one.
Good thoughtful post Amit, where you have tried to see both sides of the issue. I think violent games can only affect a person if that person has the tendency. I mean, if someone has a violent, aggressive tendency then perhaps the game can act as a trigger but even then I doubt it. I think a real life incident is more likely to act as a trigger, although the game might give him ideas! I have written a very long post on this very subject but a long time ago. From what I understood at the end of it all was that its the atmosphere at home which matters. Any person brought up in a good balanced home atmosphere is not likely to become violent because of the games or violent tv programmes. In any case most of the time these addiction to games are temporary…
I think it depends on the kid really. Because if he plays Mario, you’ll say he lives in Fantasy land. If he plays car racing, you’ll say he loves speed and will become a reckless driver. If he plays action, then it’s the entire violence thing coming into play. And finally, you always have the “they don’t play outdoor” games excuse. Just let the kid be, I say. He’s not mad, he’s not gonna go around blowing people. If he has to do that, he might as well get inspired from a news channel which keep showing the Jurm programs all the time.
You know what I used to play the only action game I’ve ever played for? I used to play it to get rid of my anger. Blowing up people is a really nice way to get rid of your anger and cool you down. In the game I played, it was all the more better because you could name the person anything. So whenever I used to be angry at a particular teacher, I would keep their name in the game and keep blowing them up. But that doesn’t mean I’ma pick up a gun and blow them up in real life. That’s an insane thought.
@Anand : Well, I think you are missing something then.
Believe me, the graphics and the visuals are mindblowing. You have to see it to believe it. And yes the outlet-for-anger theory is correct. Read Ish’s comment for proof. 
I think parents generally know the tendencies of their children and they should act accordingly. Waise its very rare when children get violent after playing such games but then its a problem in the child and not the game. Lakhs of children play such games everyday. Agar aisa hota to abhi tak to sabhi mar chuke hote.
@Nita : Thanks Nita. Today with all the technological advancement, gaming provide an fascinating alternate world. Its not all about who you are killing but what’s going to come next. How will the story proceed? What new levels will open? And the graphics are seen to be believed.
And yes, generally children do get bored of them after sometime.
@Ish : Oho…to iss daur se guzar chuke hain.
Amit:
This is a good post. Your parents may want to take heart from a large and growing body of research that shows how gaming is helping develop a whole range of skills related to strategic thinking, organisation, tactics, socialisation, competitiveness and improvement. The parents of one autistic kid I know believe that playing MMORP games has improved his social skills tremendously.
Many adults find it easier to accept and subscribe to a single-factor explanation of things they do not like (case in point: the teenagers related post which we were discussing over on my blog). That line of thinking is neither valid nor very smart. Some believe people are predisposed to violence; others think certain races or classes are prone to violence; yet others blame gaming. The reality is more complicated and requires complex solutions, which not many are prepared to contemplate.
Gaming is probably the least important factor (a bit like blaming Marilyn Manson!). In London, where over a dozen teenagers have been killed violently since the start of 2008, it can be said with some confidence that most killers did not have access to any sort of gaming.
I think you are doing a great job of presenting the young persons’ point of view. Keep it up.
I like the post….
Yeah thats all I got to say because I am tired of all the Games are bad/Games are not shit. You can read a post on Cat’s blog on how M games are now regulated. It’s just a case of understanding the ratings… people would rather ban the things than work out how the system works and which games are suitable for their children.
I had Digger on a cartridge console, it was good.
But apart from that we share nothing, I started off with Age of Empires and am only now getting into FPSes but I doubt I’ll go the Quake way.
[Psst.. Serious Sam 2 was awesome! Heehee]
@Shefaly : Thanks a lot.
Although my parents knew what kind of “violent” games I was playing, they were more fascinated than scared.
Infact, my father bought a DVD writer only because he wanted to copy a game called Roadrash(Where you have to hit your opponents with sticks and chains to get ahead in a bike race), so that he could play it in his spare time in the office.
Infact, the thought of games acting as a trigger for violent tendencies never crossed their minds. And, I think that’s the way it should be. Parents very well know when a child has violent tendencies and that is where a psychiatric opinion comes into picture before taking any sort of rash decision.
Digger was good. We used to play it in the school too. And games like AOE put me to sleep. Hehehe.
I have played Serious Sam, it was very pacy and very small too. I think it was one of the best games I have played.
@Ashish : I think you were quite into God of War some time back?? That has an M rating too.
p.s. I have to buy a console soon. I am getting out of practice.
i guess playing a mature game is okay. the more restriction you make the more the curiosity and the kid wud end up playing things in real life as well.
As far as things go, a small parental guidance would be okay. I guess parents should keep an eye, but should do sneak around!!!!!!
Violent games are fun!!
I see it this way-
All the stratergy makes us *think* and *plan*. We also learn to manage time and make the right decisions at the right time (though they’re brutal).
I used to play Doom, Road Rash, Fifa, Hercules, Counter Strike and Age of Empires before !!
Good old brutal days…*ahem*
Now I play chess, pac man and scrabble
“buh”
I meant that I don’t give a shit about those “Games are violent for kids” people and give them the middle finger. Everytime they come up with a new excuse to restart the debate.
I am now into Metal Gear Solid 3 mode.. you can eat SNAKES~!
AoE is my favourite game of all time. Heehee.
My parents think I have enough of madness and I don’t need to get more. So they try to restrict my gaming. Well now its past and even if I want to, I can’t play games in office
you have done and written a Very good (and a little brief) observation.
Other commentators have already covered many points so I don’t have anything new to say here
Check out my GTA IV review at:
http://zoknowsgaming.wordpress.com/2008/05/18/gta4review/
@Xylene : Yes exactly. It varies from child to child. And sometimes children do benefit from such kind of games.
And I think Chess is very time consuming but yes its great as a strategy game. 


@Priya : Why??? You are going the opposite way!!! Children start from digger and move to Doom.
@Ashish : I played the demo version of MGS and I really liked it, but somehow I never came across the full game. Yes, I know, whenever a new game makes the news, the whole controversy starts again. Maybe it helps the game to gain some more publicity. AoE?? Zzzzz..
@Suda : Thanks..Err..you think its brief?? And I am really sorry for you. You can come to my house and play as many games as you like.
@Thatruth2006 : Thanks for dropping by. I read your review and commented.
I did start off with computer games in the opposite way !! The reason – big brother !!
He used to bring his friends over and play all those wicked loud games – killing people…
I too fell for it !! It was amazing fun though! These multi-player games are fun !!
@Priya : Oh yes. The same old story.
Even my sis started playing computer games like this. She was quite good at them.
whatever the point and conern is ..i must admit that i like all teh games and i would like to continue playing them .. till the point i can ….
the only concern i feel is i get to spend a little less time with my family while palying games.. but it is not all that bad .. as me and my younger brother, both of us enjoy these games so i have only one thing to say abt it .. nice and loud…
LONG LIVE VIDEO GAMES >>>>
@Rajneesh : “Till the point I can” –> You mean till I am married??
And yes its great if you have a sibling who shares the interest. And I remember you took a lot of games from me too. The way you and Golu used to pound on my pc!!! Good old days. *sigh*